March 25, 2025

My Patio Renovation: The Ideas

A shot of our patio looking nice from a Frontgate partnership a couple years ago.

As you may have seen on Instagram, I’m kicking off a patio renovation next week so it’s ready for summer, and we are SO excited. We LIVE outside in the summer, and our old brick patio desperately needs to be replaced, as well as the plantings around it. We’ve sketched out an idea of what we want for our contractor, including a large space with built in gas fire put and a short stone wall dividing the patio from the yard. This will give us room for dining, sofas/a sectional and a couple chaises.

The real state of our old brick patio….

We initially wanted to add a gunite pool down behind our barn – which has two lower bays that would have easily been made into a pool house – but the quote was astronomical, as they have been lately in this area. Adding to the cost of labor is the cost of the retaining walls we would need to build to create a level pool, of course made of fieldstone, and the patio deck itself, also stone. Plus 6′ high fencing around the property, running water and gas, new landscaping… it was basically the cost of another house, to be honest, so we abandoned those plans, and instead focused just on the patio for now.

And yes, many of you sent me messages about Soake Pools, and we did consider one up by the patio. We may add one, but the costs are already pretty high so I’m not sure it’s in the cards, as much as I’d like it to be! We have friends who have these and LOVE them, and our kids would be thrilled and we’d probably use it a lot, but being financially responsible is one of those annoying qualities I have and this adds on another 80k so… sorry kids. Inflatable pool it is for you :)

Anyways, I’m firming up the plans and drawings, which I will share, but right now I’m trying to envision it done and what I’ll use to dress it up :). This is the fun stage before any equipment digs up the yard! Here are two slightly different looks I’m toying with – one a little more contemporary/sleek and another more traditional.

The patio itself will most likely be done in Silver Ridge granite or Blue Mist granite. We of course wanted Bluestone but have been advised by a few people that it conducts SO much heat it can be unbearable to walk on in the summer (and this patio will get direct sun). So these stone looks a bit like Bluestone but are a bit cooler and more durable. Below, Silver Ridge top and Blue Mist bottom.

Silver Ridge
Blue Mist

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I do love a good outdoor sectional, so this fits the bill. Also, being someone who is terrible about taking cushions in or covering furniture, these mesh chaises are actually great (and keep you cooler in the summer).

This version leans ever so slightly more English Garden with the black metal additions and painted wood planters. Not quite as “comfy” feeling, but very pretty and polished. Same dining set in both options as I already have those chairs and they are great!

Which do you prefer? Any tips from your own patio renovations you think I should hear? Share away!